In this episode of Beyond Compatibility, I sit down with Victoria Brito, the founder of FitMeet Berlin—a fitness and social club helping singles in Berlin connect through shared movement, games, and low-pressure events. Victoria shares her own experience dating in Berlin for five years, the dating fatigue that inspired her to take action, and how she built a thriving community of over 3,000 members.

💡 About Victoria:Originally from Brazil and raised in the US, Victoria blends warmth, humor, and strategic thinking to create real-world spaces where singles can meet intentionally—without the stress of dating apps. Through running events, volleyball, yoga, and even themed games, she's changing the dating narrative, one meetup at a time.

We dive into:

📍 Why Victoria quit the apps and how offline dating changed her perspective

📍 The magic of shared physical activity—what running reveals about someone's character

📍 How FitMeet uses black clothing as a subtle signal of availability

📍 The importance of vibe-checks over high-pressure speed dating

📍 How the community grew from a WhatsApp message to thousands of members

📍 Navigating dating with honesty and respect: Victoria’s golden rules for showing up

📍 Dating fatigue, love bombing, and Berlin’s unique challenges

📍 The future of FitMeet: from Berlin to a multinational network

Whether you’re tired of swiping or just want a new way to meet kind, like-minded people, this episode is packed with laughs, stories, and real talk about building connection in a disconnected world.

🎧 Tune in and let’s dive in!

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