This week, Christopher reviews Boyslut by Zachary Zane and unpacks the journey from shame to security to full-blown pride in your sexuality. He explores what “sexual identity” really means, how labels can trap us, and why pleasure isn’t just about genitals. From emotionally unavailable vibrators to dinner with a porn star, this episode is a full-spectrum deep dive into sex, pride, and letting yourself enjoy being you. Plus: stonewall aunties, anal orgasms, and why a sponge holder shaped like a penis is the real test of sexual confidence.