When a new baby arrives, the whole family’s nervous system changes. In this episode, we’re talking about what helps families thrive in the postpartum season, especially how dads and partners can become the steady, emotionally present anchor their home needs.
We break down:
What it means to be anchored, not stoic (emotional presence vs. emotional shutdown)
Why nervous system regulation and co-regulation are game-changers for moms, dads, and babies
Two practical breathing tools (Wim Hof method + 4-2-6-2 pattern) that calm your body fast
How to create a “commute reset” to shift from work mode to family mode
Micro-scripts for staying connected instead of defensive in tough moments
The link between emotionally present partners and lower postpartum depression rates
This conversation is for dads, partners, and anyone who wants to understand how emotional steadiness and nervous system awareness can transform postpartum relationships.
Stay to the end for a short behind-the-scenes chat about how parenting, research, and humanity are evolving (and why this generation of parents has the tools to do it differently.)
Resources mentioned:
• DadVantage small group for dads
• Previous episodes on co-regulation & nervous system work
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