Esther and Gary (NeumanMethod.com) continue discussing how a marriage can be saved after cheating. Remember who has to live with the decision to stay married or divorce. The apology-what to look for to see if the apology is genuine? How many times is an apology needed? Why there’s no excuse for cheating. When is the right and wrong time for the cheater to say what he/she needs from the marriage going forward? Why the cheater should continue to bring up the cheating. Really! When marital therapy is worse than no therapy at all.  What questions should (and equally important) should not be asked and answered. Discussing  who else knew about the affair. How the cheater must dig deep to have insight to ultimately change. Follow us on instagram @neuman.method.