OOH! Child. Purity culture had me by my throat all the way into my late 20's. If my teen-self wasn't consistently trying to make sure I wasnt making anyone else "stubble" because of my clothes and actions. I was worried about being that crumpled-up rose that would never be perfect and pure if one has "seggs" before marriage. My adult-self and teen-self have had to have so many conversations to help me get to where I am today on the page of purity, seggs and God.

btw seggs = sex