In this special episode of Bedtime, The Podcast, Refiloe is joined by Valencia for an intimate, no-holds-barred conversation about self-awareness, relationships, and the power of owning your sexuality. Valencia opens up about how wit, confidence, and setting boundaries have shaped her dating life and personal growth. They discuss the misconceptions of being an attractive woman, navigating societal pressures, and what it truly means to be free and self-aware in both life and love. Tune in as they dive into topics like mental connection before physical intimacy, sexual liberation, and the impact of growing up in a traditional African home. This episode will challenge your perspective on love and inspire you to embrace your authentic self #bedtimethepodcast ------ THANK YOU FOR WATCHING!! 1. If you enjoyed this episode, please give it a thumbs up and subscribe to the channel for more content like this! 2. Don't forget to hit the notification bell to stay updated with our latest episodes. 3. What are your thoughts on today's topic? Drop a comment below-we'd love to hear from you! 4. Follow us on [Instagram: instagram.com/itsbedtime.co /Facebook: / bedtimethepodcast /TikTok: tiktok.com/@itsbedtime.co] for behind-the-scenes content, updates, and more! 5. Want to be featured as a guest? Follow the prompts here for a potential call back on our next season: https://shorturl.at/PxzgV #Itsbedtime #BedtimeThePodcast #IntimacyandWellness #PodcastCommunity #BlackLove #blackcommunitiesmatter #mjolo #healingtheinnerchild #healthyrelationships #intimacy #podcast #relationships #intimateconversations #couple #love #antistigma