Picture this: You're moving dorms, your friends are ghosts, and your crush—a new work acquaintance—is your only hope. Do you risk it all and ask for help? One user on Avonetics dropped this ticking time bomb of a question, and the dating advice community absolutely ERUPTED in a firestorm of controversy. The responses created a warzone of opinions. One side hailed it as a stroke of genius, the ultimate icebreaker that perfectly sets up a "thank you" dinner and fast-tracks you straight to a first date. They claim this bold move shows vulnerability and creates an instant bond. But the other side came out swinging, calling it a catastrophic, manipulative mistake. They argue it's way too much to ask of a near-stranger, making you look like a user and putting your crush in an impossibly awkward position. Is this the ultimate dating hack or social suicide? We're tearing apart every angle of this insane dilemma to reveal the shocking truth behind making the "big ask" and whether it will ignite a romance or get you labeled a walking red flag for life. The verdict is in, and it will change how you see dating forever. For advertising opportunities, visit Avonetics.com.