Welcome back for Part 2! Ayana Rodriguez is back and we’re picking up right where we left off—getting real about what it means to raise resilient, grounded, and emotionally intelligent kids in today’s world.In this episode, we talk about building grit, embracing accountability, and the power of learning through life’s lessons. Nikki and Ayana open up about raising kids with empathy, the importance of recognizing that we all have choices, and how shifting our lens can shape the way we show up for ourselves and our children.We also take a closer look at her mission behind itavi, and why it's more than just a childcare brand–it’s a movement rooted in purpose. Tune in!-BTW. Are you looking for deeper connection? You know what I say. “Come sit with us.” But for real. Join my EXCLUSIVE online women’s community for Becoming: HER today. Xoxo,Nikki SpoIn this episode…Building GritAccountabilityInstant GratificationShaping the Next Generation of MenLearning LessonsHaving Zero ExpectationsSeeing Through a New LensAbout itavi Quotes “As my children are getting older I am trying to always acknowledge; thank you for being the person who you are choosing to show to be.” - Ayana Rodriguez“They might find themselves in that situation once, but it's being able to learn from that lesson so that they don't find themselves in that situation 2, 3, 4 times over again.” - Ayana Rodriguez“God gives you the lesson as long as you need to learn it” - Nikki Spo“I think there's a moment in time, when you can take a step back and reflect and say: I don't quite have the right lens, but I know that there is a different lens.” - Ayana RodriguezTimestamps:0:00 - 0:37 | Empathy is Huge.0:37 - 0:56 | Message from SANA SKIN STUDIO0:56 - 1:28 | Intro1:28 - 3:11 | Building Grit3:11 - 4:45 | Nikki’s Experience Teaching 7th Grade4:45 - 7:37 | Accountability is What Leads Us to Resiliency7:37 - 9:40 | Using Social Media For Good9:40 - 12:40 | Instant Gratification 12:40 - 14:35 | “You’re Participating in the Locker Room Talk”14:35 - 15:53 | Empathy is the Key15:53 - 16:50 | Message from SANA SKIN STUDIO16:50 - 17:16 | Join the Becoming: HER Online Community17:16 - 19:30 | “God Gives You the Lesson As Long As You Need to Learn It”19:30 - 21:20 | “At the Top People Are Collaborating”/Competitiveness2120 - 22:50 | Do No Harm, Take No Sh*t22:50 - 25:33 | The Power of Choice/Changing the Lens25:33 - 26:19 | Everyone Has Choices26:19 - 31:17 | About itavi31:17 - 31:35 | Message from SANA SKIN STUDIO31:35 - 32:32 | Outro    —SANA SKIN STUDIO is my #1 go-to spot for self-care. My favorite facial is the Super Glow, and you can get $25 off of your first facial when you book at www.sanaskinstudio.com with my code THEKNOWGLOW.Join Becoming Herhttps://www.skool.com/nikki-spoelstra-1185/aboutConnect with Ayana RodriguezItaviConnect with Nikkiwww.nikkispo.com@nikkisappso / @wearebecoming_herSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-know-with-nikki-spo/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy