If you want to up-level yourself as a speaker (and get paid), this one's for you!In this epic conversation, Alex Merry and I discuss the nuances of public speaking, from building connections on LinkedIn to getting paid for speaking engagements. We dive into the need for authenticity (especially today), the balance between messages for money and meaning, and tips for overcoming nerves and engaging your audience. We emphasise the value of practice, community, and the power of social media as a tool for honing your speaking skills.Ket Takeaways:Building relationships on LinkedIn can lead to valuable opportunities.Public speaking is about sharing ideas, not self-promotion.Having a dual message for money and meaning is crucial for success.Understanding the audience's needs is key to getting paid for speaking.Engaging the audience creates a memorable experience.Practice is essential for building confidence in public speaking.Social media can be a powerful tool for testing communication skills.Authenticity resonates more than perfection in speaking.Overcoming nerves can be achieved through various techniques.Creating a connection with the audience enhances the impact of the talk.Chapters:00:00 The Journey of Connection03:06 Public Speaking Insights and Challenges06:06 Building Resilience Through Experience09:09 The Importance of Purpose in Speaking11:45 Navigating the Speaking Industry15:11 Crafting Messages for Impact18:00 Getting Paid to Speak20:50 Evaluating Speaking Opportunities28:00 Understanding Event Importance and Budgeting31:03 The Reality of Speaking as a Profession34:01 Targeting the Right Audience for Speaking Engagements34:52 What Makes a Great Speaker?40:10 Embracing Authenticity in Public Speaking45:54 Managing Nerves and Anxiety Before Speaking53:02 Final Tips for Aspiring SpeakersIf you enjoy, like, subscribe and share with a friend!