E40 - Befriend Your Creative Fears.
Episode Summary:
After a health break, I return to explore the role of fear in a writer’s journey with you. Fear of judgment, rejection, or not being “good enough” can paralyze creativity, yet fear also signals growth. Through personal reflections, a cycling metaphor, and wisdom from Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert, I share how we writers can reframe fear as a companion instead of a roadblock.
Key Points Discussed:
Fear is natural and part of writing. Common fears: judgment, failure, rejection, imposter syndrome. Writing is vulnerable—criticism feels personal. Fear mirrors learning cycles: wobble, fall, rise, succeed. Challenges expand your comfort zone and help you “level up.” Fear can join the journey, but it doesn’t get to drive.
Takeaways:
Fear points to where your growth awaits. By befriending it and letting courage lead, you’ll not only keep writing—you’ll watch your journey thrive.
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I encourage writers to pursue their passion through my podcast, Becoming A Writer.
I have authoredSoul Writer vs. Social Writer, a guide to discovering and embracing both the introspective Soul Writer and the engaging Social Writer within you, helping you balance these aspects for a more fulfilling writing journey.