E41 - The Transformative Power of Journaling for Writers

Episode Summary :

In this episode, we explore how journaling can transform both your writing and your inner world. Beyond being a daily habit, journaling becomes a sacred practice that clears creative blocks, builds self-awareness, and strengthens your connection with your craft. Based on my experience, I share my favorite journaling methods, how to make journaling a lasting habit, and the short-term and long-term benefits you can experience.

Key Points Discussed:

• Why writers should journal?
• Three simple and effective journaling styles.
• 7 steps to stick with your journaling habit.
• Why you should treat your journal as your safe space?
• Short-term and long-term benefits of journaling that you may experience.

Takeaways:

• Journaling is a sacred act of self-expression and reflection.
• There’s no “right” way—just consistency and honesty is required.
• Let your journal be your safe, playful, and healing space.
• Over time, it will transform both your writing and your relationship with yourself.

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Welcome to Becoming A Writer, where writing inspiration is served fresh in 20 minutes or less, every 2nd and 4th Saturday.

One big lesson to learn as writers - it’s not just about publishing a book—it’s about becoming a writer who writes for life. There’s plenty of advice out there on how to write and publish, but not much about how to be a writer—how to love the process and grow into it. Once you figured that out, you will never stop writing.

This podcast is here to help you explore, experiment with, and express your writer self. Writing can be fun, fulfilling, and a lifelong joy—and your books deserve the writer you’re meant to be.

About Me -

I’m Rubina Gauri Gomes, a multi-genre writer exploring mystery, suspense, and the creative life.

I encourage writers to pursue their passion through my podcast, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Becoming A Writer⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

I have authored⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Soul Writer vs. Social Writer⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, a guide to discovering and embracing both the introspective Soul Writer and the engaging Social Writer within you, helping you balance these aspects for a more fulfilling writing journey.

E40 - Befriend Your Creative Fears.

Episode Summary:

After a health break, I return to explore the role of fear in a writer’s journey with you. Fear of judgment, rejection, or not being “good enough” can paralyze creativity, yet fear also signals growth. Through personal reflections, a cycling metaphor, and wisdom from Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert, I share how we writers can reframe fear as a companion instead of a roadblock.

Key Points Discussed:

Fear is natural and part of writing. Common fears: judgment, failure, rejection, imposter syndrome. Writing is vulnerable—criticism feels personal. Fear mirrors learning cycles: wobble, fall, rise, succeed. Challenges expand your comfort zone and help you “level up.” Fear can join the journey, but it doesn’t get to drive.

Takeaways:

Fear points to where your growth awaits. By befriending it and letting courage lead, you’ll not only keep writing—you’ll watch your journey thrive.

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About Podcast -

Welcome to Becoming A Writer, where writing inspiration is served fresh in 20 minutes or less, every 2nd and 4th Saturday.

One big lesson to learn as writers - it’s not just about publishing a book—it’s about becoming a writer who writes for life. There’s plenty of advice out there on how to write and publish, but not much about how to be a writer—how to love the process and grow into it. Once you figured that out, you will never stop writing.

This podcast is here to help you explore, experiment with, and express your writer self. Writing can be fun, fulfilling, and a lifelong joy—and your books deserve the writer you’re meant to be.

About Me -

I’m Rubina Gauri Gomes, a multi-genre writer exploring mystery, suspense, and the creative life.

I encourage writers to pursue their passion through my podcast, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Becoming A Writer⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

I have authored⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Soul Writer vs. Social Writer⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, a guide to discovering and embracing both the introspective Soul Writer and the engaging Social Writer within you, helping you balance these aspects for a more fulfilling writing journey.

E39 - Write Your Book Like You Read One—Let Your Words Surprise You.

Episode Summary:

In today’s episode, we dive into a refreshing mindset shift for writers: Write like you read. Whether you're crafting fiction or non-fiction, approaching your book with curiosity, imagination, and conversational flow can not only make the writing process more enjoyable, but also make your words resonate more deeply with your readers. We talk about how letting your story unfold like a movie in your mind or a conversation with a friend can lead to powerful creative breakthroughs and a stronger connection to your work.

Key Points Discussed:

• The Movie in Your Head: How visualizing your scenes like a movie can help fiction writers write immersive, emotionally rich stories.
• Scene Spontaneity: Embracing unplanned moments that emerge during writing can be a sign of creative flow.
• Write Like You Read: Letting the next scene or paragraph surprise you, just like when you're reading a great book.
• Fiction Writing Tips - the movie mindset.
• Non-Fiction Writing Tips - the conversation mindset.
• Avoiding Perfectionism: Writing your first draft is about freedom, not flawlessness. Editing will come later.
• Why Writing Like This Helps: It reduces overwhelm, unlocks creativity, and makes writing more enjoyable and sustainable.

Takeaways:

• Your story might already know what it wants to be. Let it lead you.
• First drafts are not for perfection—they're for discovery.
• Writing like you're reading (or watching a movie or talking to a friend) brings joy back into the creative process.
• Let your writing breathe—you’re not just crafting words, you’re crafting an experience.
• The goal is not to control the story, but to collaborate with it.
• Whether you’re a panster or a plotter, surprise is your friend.
• Write from a place of curiosity, not control.

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About Podcast -

Welcome to Becoming A Writer, where writing inspiration is served fresh in 20 minutes or less, every 2nd and 4th Saturday.

One big lesson to learn as writers - it’s not just about publishing a book—it’s about becoming a writer who writes for life. There’s plenty of advice out there on how to write and publish, but not much about how to be a writer—how to love the process and grow into it. Once you figured that out, you will never stop writing.

This podcast is here to help you explore, experiment with, and express your writer self. Writing can be fun, fulfilling, and a lifelong joy—and your books deserve the writer you’re meant to be.

About Me -

I’m Rubina Gauri Gomes, a multi-genre writer exploring mystery, suspense, and the creative life.

I encourage writers to pursue their passion through my podcast, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Becoming A Writer⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

I have authored⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Soul Writer vs. Social Writer⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, a guide to discovering and embracing both the introspective Soul Writer and the engaging Social Writer within you, helping you balance these aspects for a more fulfilling writing journey.

E38 - "Who Will Read My Book?"

Episode Summary:

In this deeply personal and inspiring episode, I return after a healing hiatus to reflect on the transformative power of reading and the doubt that often haunts writers — Who will read my books? Through my own journey of dealing with PCOS, healing through books, and reconnecting with my love for reading, I remind you that if books have changed our lives, our own books have the potential to change others’ lives too.

Key Points Discussed:

• Health Update & Healing Journey: Rubina shares her recent challenges with PCOS and how a new doctor and Ayurvedic medicines are beginning to help.
• Books As Lifesavers: Reading books on healing, trauma, feminine energy, and more has been an intense, emotional journey and a vital part of her recovery.
• Power of Books Across Time: From Agatha Christie to Gabor Maté, she reflects on how books have shaped her life and creative identity.
• Reading = Transformation: Books have saved her in many stages of life and are helping her make sense of her current challenges.
• The Writer’s Doubt: She confronts the recurring question — Who will read my book? — and dismantles it with compassion and logic.
• Imagine If They Gave Up: What if the writers we love had given in to self-doubt? Rubina poses this powerful what-if to challenge our limiting beliefs.
• Writers' Responsibility & Gift: Our stories have the power to comfort, uplift, and transform lives, even if we may never fully see their impact.

Takeaways:

• Books are healing tools, not just entertainment. They meet you where you are and move you forward.
• The reading life fuels the writing life. If books helped you, your words will help others too.
• Doubt is part of the process, but don’t let it stop your book from reaching someone who needs it.

• Keep writing your book — someone’s waiting for it, even if they don’t know it yet.

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About Podcast -

Welcome to Becoming A Writer, where writing inspiration is served fresh in 20 minutes or less, every 2nd and 4th Saturday.

One big lesson to learn as writers - it’s not just about publishing a book—it’s about becoming a writer who writes for life. There’s plenty of advice out there on how to write and publish, but not much about how to be a writer—how to love the process and grow into it. Once you figured that out, you will never stop writing.

This podcast is here to help you explore, experiment with, and express your writer self. Writing can be fun, fulfilling, and a lifelong joy—and your books deserve the writer you’re meant to be.

About Me -

I’m Rubina Gauri Gomes, a multi-genre writer exploring mystery, suspense, and the creative life.

I encourage writers to pursue their passion through my podcast, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Becoming A Writer⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

I have authored⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Soul Writer vs. Social Writer⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, a guide to discovering and embracing both the introspective Soul Writer and the engaging Social Writer within you, helping you balance these aspects for a more fulfilling writing journey.

E37 - Living And Writing With Chronic Illness

💬Episode Summary: In this deeply personal episode, I share my 15-year battle with PCOS, the struggles I have faced in seeking medical help, and the impact it has had on my writing life.

I discuss the emotional toll of dealing with a chronic illness, the frustrations of not being able to work at full capacity, and my journey toward healing. I also open up about my decision to prioritize my health and the changes I am making to manage my condition better.

Through this candid conversation, I hope to shed light on the challenges of writing while dealing with a chronic illness and offer support to those who may be going through something similar.

💬Key Takeaways:

• PCOS and Writing: How living with PCOS has affected my ability to write, focus, and maintain consistency in my work.
• Medical Mistrust and Misdiagnosis: The frustrating experiences with 13+ doctors who failed to diagnose or treat the root cause of my condition.
• Emotional and Mental Toll: The self-doubt, body image issues, and stress that have compounded my health struggles.
• The Role of Stress: How childhood trauma and financial instability contributed to my health issues.
• Homeopathy and Healing: Turning to homeopathy for treatment and the progress I have seen.
• Taking a Break for Health: The difficult decision to slow down on writing projects and podcasting to focus on healing.
• A Call for Patience: A request for understanding from my audience as I prioritize my well-being.

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About Podcast -

Welcome to Becoming A Writer, where writing inspiration is served fresh in 20 minutes or less, every 2nd and 4th Saturday.

One big lesson to learn as writers - it’s not just about publishing a book—it’s about becoming a writer who writes for life. There’s plenty of advice out there on how to write and publish, but not much about how to be a writer—how to love the process and grow into it. Once you figured that out, you will never stop writing.

This podcast is here to help you explore, experiment with, and express your writer self. Writing can be fun, fulfilling, and a lifelong joy—and your books deserve the writer you’re meant to be.

About Me -

I’m Rubina Gauri Gomes, a multi-genre writer exploring mystery, suspense, and the creative life.

I encourage writers to pursue their passion through my podcast, ⁠⁠⁠⁠Becoming A Writer⁠⁠⁠⁠.

I have authored⁠⁠⁠⁠Soul Writer vs. Social Writer⁠⁠⁠⁠, a guide to discovering and embracing both the introspective Soul Writer and the engaging Social Writer within you, helping you balance these aspects for a more fulfilling writing journey.

E36 - Uncover the Goldmine of Ideas Waiting Patiently Within You.

💬Episode Summary: In this episode, we explore the concept of ideas being all around us and how writers can tap into them effortlessly. We discuss why writers struggle with the belief that they have no ideas and provide practical methods to find, generate, and track ideas for writing projects.

💬Key Points Discussed:

• The power of listing life and professional lessons to uncover writing ideas.
• Why we entertain the limiting belief that we have no ideas.
• Where to look for ideas.
• How to keep track of your ideas effectively.

💬Takeaways:

• Ideas are everywhere if we open our minds and engage with the world.
• Writers often fall into the “no ideas” trap due to self-imposed pressures and fears.
• Looking for and generating ideas are two different approaches that can be used together.
• Keeping a structured yet simple system for storing ideas ensures a steady flow of inspiration.

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About Podcast -

Welcome to Becoming A Writer, where writing inspiration is served fresh in 20 minutes or less, every 2nd and 4th Saturday.

One big lesson to learn as writers - it’s not just about publishing a book—it’s about becoming a writer who writes for life. There’s plenty of advice out there on how to write and publish, but not much about how to be a writer—how to love the process and grow into it. Once you figured that out, you will never stop writing.

This podcast is here to help you explore, experiment with, and express your writer self. Writing can be fun, fulfilling, and a lifelong joy—and your books deserve the writer you’re meant to be.

About Me -

I’m Rubina Gauri Gomes, a multi-genre writer exploring mystery, suspense, and the creative life.

I encourage writers to pursue their passion through my podcast, ⁠⁠⁠Becoming A Writer⁠⁠⁠.

I have authored⁠⁠⁠Soul Writer vs. Social Writer⁠⁠⁠, a guide to discovering and embracing both the introspective Soul Writer and the engaging Social Writer within you, helping you balance these aspects for a more fulfilling writing journey.

E35 - Turn Your Dream Into Reality: Complete Your First Draft This Year!

💬Episode Summary:In this episode, we discuss how to overcome the fear and uncertainty of writing a first draft and turn your dream of completing a book into reality. Using a combination of creativity and logical planning, you can create a writing routine that works for you and ensures steady progress. Whether you're a discovery writer or an outliner, you'll learn how to trust the process, stay consistent, and finish your first draft this year.

💬Key Points Discussed:

• Embracing Uncertainty in Writing: Writing is like driving at night—you only need to see a little ahead to reach your destination.
• The Shitty First Draft: First drafts are messy, and that’s okay! Treat it as a way to familiarize yourself with your story or idea.
• Managing Writing Fears: Your brain craves certainty, but writing requires embracing the unknown and pushing forward despite the discomfort.
• Using Logic to Support Creativity: The logical brain can help the creative brain by setting realistic goals and structuring writing sessions.
• Step 1: Figure Out Your Writing Output: Identify how many days and hours you can dedicate to writing and set a manageable daily writing goal.
• Step 2: Establish a Production Goal: Based on your writing output, calculate how long it will take to finish your draft and set a deadline.
• Step 3: Plan to Win Every Writing Session.

• Step 4: Cross the Finish Line: Pushing through the final stretch builds confidence, reinforces your identity as a writer, and sets the foundation for revisions and future projects.

💬Takeaways:

• Writing a first draft is about progress, not perfection.
• Planning and consistency help overcome fear and writer’s block.
• Writing one page a day can lead to a completed draft sooner than you think.
• Trust your writing process.
• Crossing the finish line is about persistence—finishing your draft transforms you from an aspiring writer into an accomplished one.

Send in your suggestions and questions here.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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About Podcast -

Welcome to Becoming A Writer, where writing inspiration is served fresh in 20 minutes or less, every 2nd and 4th Saturday.

One big lesson to learn as writers - it’s not just about publishing a book—it’s about becoming a writer who writes for life. There’s plenty of advice out there on how to write and publish, but not much about how to be a writer—how to love the process and grow into it. Once you figured that out, you will never stop writing.

This podcast is here to help you explore, experiment with, and express your writer self. Writing can be fun, fulfilling, and a lifelong joy—and your books deserve the writer you’re meant to be.

About Me -

I’m Rubina Gauri Gomes, a multi-genre writer exploring mystery, suspense, and the creative life.

I encourage writers to pursue their passion through my podcast, ⁠⁠Becoming A Writer⁠⁠.

I have authored⁠⁠Soul Writer vs. Social Writer⁠⁠, a guide to discovering and embracing both the introspective Soul Writer and the engaging Social Writer within you, helping you balance these aspects for a more fulfilling writing journey.

E34 - 10 Writing And Creative Lessons I Learnt In 2024 - Part 2

🗨️Episode Summary:In this episode, we continue discussing the rest five Writing and Creative lessons I learned last year, covering insights on slowing down, enjoying the process, recognising my own expertise, embracing independence, and stepping into my author life.

🗨️Key Points Discussed:

1. Slow Down, You Crazy Child - Reducing excessive content creation allowed me to focus on my core goal—writing books.
2. Enjoying Yourself Is Super Important - Slowing down makes the creative process more enjoyable, leading to greater productivity.
3. I Know More Than I Realize - A conversation with an aspiring writer helped me recognize my depth of knowledge.
4. It’s OK Not to Have a Mentor - Not finding a mentor forced me to learn independently and develop my own writing process.
5. Now My Author Life Begins - After ten years of learning, I am ready to step into the role of an author.

🗨️Takeaways:

• Prioritising fewer but more meaningful projects leads to better creative fulfilment.
• Enjoyment enhances productivity and keeps burnout at bay.
• You often know more than you give yourself credit for—sharing your knowledge can be eye-opening.
• Not having a mentor can push you to develop a more authentic and self-sufficient approach.
• Every phase of the writing journey has its lessons—embrace each step fully.

⁠Send in your suggestions and questions here.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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Fueled by coffee ☕ and made with love for fellow writers and creatives 🤍

About Podcast -

Welcome toBecoming A Writer, where writing inspiration is served fresh in 20 minutes or less, every 2nd and 4th Saturday.One big lesson to learn as writers - it’s not just about publishing a book—it’s about becoming a writer who writes for life.There’s plenty of advice out there on how to write and publish, but not much about how to be a writer—how to love the process and grow into it. Once you figured that out, you will never stop writing.This podcast is here to help you explore, experiment with, and express your writer self. Writing can be fun, fulfilling, and a lifelong joy—and your books deserve the writer you’re meant to be.

About Me -

I’m Rubina Gauri Gomes, a multi-genre writer exploring mystery, suspense, and the creative life.I encourage writers to pursue their passion through my podcast,⁠Becoming A Writer⁠.I have authored⁠Soul Writer vs. Social Writer⁠, a guide to discovering and embracing both the introspective Soul Writer and the engaging Social Writer within you, helping you balance these aspects for a more fulfilling writing journey.

E33 - 10 Writing And Creative Lessons I Learnt In 2024 - Part 1

🗨️Episode Summary: In the first episode of 2025 and the thirty-third conversation of the Becoming A Writer podcast, I share five of the ten writing and creative lessons I learnt in 2024. From finding the best time to write to understanding when to quit and pivot, this episode is filled with personal insights and actionable advice for writers and creatives. The conversation is divided into two parts to keep it digestible, with the second half coming in the next episode.

🗨️Key Points Discussed: 1. Finding Your Creative Time – Identifying the best time for deep work and structuring the day accordingly. 2. Trying Something New – Overcoming fear and embracing new creative ventures, like starting a podcast. 3. The Goldilocks Principle – Avoiding burnout by finding the right balance in work and creativity. 4. Knowing When to Quit and Pivot – Understanding Seth Godin’s The Dip and learning when to move on from unproductive efforts. 5. Reading Books vs. Social Media Scrolling – Reassessing social media consumption and prioritizing reading for deeper engagement and enrichment.

🗨️Takeaways: - Writers should schedule their writing sessions first before filling in the rest of the day’s responsibilities. - Fear of the unknown often exaggerates difficulties; trying new things can lead to unexpected enjoyment and growth. - Overworking leads to burnout, and it’s essential to find a sustainable pace. - Recognizing when a project/place is no longer serving you and having the courage to pivot can lead to better opportunities. - Social media consumption drains creative energy, while reading books enriches the mind and soul.

🗨️Resources Mentioned: - The Dip by Seth Godin - Medium vs. Substack – A personal reflection on the transition from Medium to Substack as a better platform for long-form content.

Send in your suggestions and questions here. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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Fueled by coffee ☕ and made with love for fellow writers and creatives 🤍

About Podcast - Welcome to Becoming A Writer, where writing inspiration is served fresh in 20 minutes or less, every 2nd and 4th Saturday. One big lesson to learn as writers - it’s not just about publishing a book—it’s about becoming a writer who writes for life. There’s plenty of advice out there on how to write and publish, but not much about how to be a writer—how to love the process and grow into it. Once you figured that out, you will never stop writing. This podcast is here to help you explore, experiment with, and express your writer self. Writing can be fun, fulfilling, and a lifelong joy—and your books deserve the writer you’re meant to be.

About Me - I’m Rubina Gauri Gomes, a multi-genre writer exploring mystery, suspense, and the creative life. I encourage writers to pursue their passion through my podcast, Becoming A Writer. I have authored Soul Writer vs. Social Writer, a guide to discovering and embracing both the introspective Soul Writer and the engaging Social Writer within you, helping you balance these aspects for a more fulfilling writing journey.

E32 - You Don't Need More Writing Advice. You Need More Writing Action.

(Please note: The podcast is going on a winter break. Will be back on 1st Feb 2025.)

Episode Summary: In this episode, we dive into a common trap many writers fall into: the advice blackhole. It’s easy to get overwhelmed by the sheer volume of self-help resources available today. But at some point, we need to shift our focus from consuming advice to taking actionable steps.

Key Points Discussed:

1. The Self-Help Overload
• How the abundance of books, articles, videos, and courses can lead to information paralysis.
• The real purpose of these resources: to motivate and guide you into taking action.
2. Personal Experience
• How consuming too much advice led to inaction in the early stages of writing.
• The realization that practical experience and writing were crucial to learning and growth.
3. Learning Through Doing
• The benefits of starting your writing journey without waiting for the perfect moment or complete knowledge.
• Discovering personal writing habits and processes through actual writing practice.
4. The Balance Between Learning and Doing
• Why it’s essential to balance the time spent on gathering advice with taking concrete steps towards your writing goals.
• The ideal ratio of action versus advice consumption for progress and productivity.
5. Creating a Plan
• Encouragement to set a plan and schedule for writing and action.
• The promise of finding your writer self and making writing feel effortless with consistent effort.

Takeaways:

• Action Over Advice: Consume advice to get started, but focus more on applying what you’ve learned through consistent action.
• Practical Experience: Begin writing and experimenting to discover what works best for you personally.
• Set Realistic Goals: Create a plan and stick with it to make significant progress on your writing journey.

As the year wraps up, reflect on how much time you’ve spent taking action versus gathering advice. Promise yourself to prioritize action in the coming year to truly find and develop your writer self.

Send in your suggestions and questions here. ⁠⁠⁠⁠

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About Podcast -

Welcome to Becoming A Writer, a space where we write freely, write fearlessly, and write forever.

It’s not just about publishing a book—it's about becoming the writer your stories deserve. Your dream of holding your book in your hands is possible, but it starts with embracing the journey of writing itself. Join me as we dive into tips, encouragement, and inspiration to help you write with joy and passion, making writing a lifelong adventure.

About Me -

I’m Rubina Gauri Gomes, a multi-genre writer exploring mystery, suspense, and the creative life.

I share essays on writing and living creatively at rubinagomes.substack.com and I encourage writers to pursue their passion through my podcast, Becoming A Writer.

I have authored Soul Writer vs. Social Writer, a guide to discovering and embracing both the introspective Soul Writer and the engaging Social Writer within you, helping you balance these aspects for a more fulfilling writing journey.

E31 - Creative Gods Have A Different Plan For Your Writing Journey.

Episode Summary: In this episode, I delve into the often overlooked and frustrating phases of a writer's journey where it feels like the universe is conspiring against you. Whether it's constant distractions, unexpected responsibilities, or just the sheer struggle of finding the right words, it can seem like every obstacle is in place to keep you from your writing dreams. But here's the twist—these challenges might be part of a bigger plan.I share my personal experience, from the agony of trying to write my first novel to the unexpected journey into non-fiction. Through the ups and downs, I've learned six crucial lessons about patience, persistence, and trusting the process.

Key Takeaways:

1. Embrace External Challenges as Growth Opportunities:
• Recognize that obstacles in your writing journey are often guiding you towards essential lessons and personal growth.
2. Discovering New Paths:
• My initial struggle with writing fiction led me to explore non-fiction, which ultimately became a significant part of my writing career. Sometimes, the universe redirects us to what we truly need.
3. Building Habits Over Finding Readers:
• Developing a consistent writing habit can be more valuable than immediately seeking readers. The discipline and skill you build will benefit all your writing projects.
4. The Evolution of the Self:
• Personal growth and healing are integral to becoming a better writer. Life experiences shape your writing and prepare you for future success.
5. Surprises and New Opportunities:
• Sometimes, the creative journey leads you to unexpected places. Embrace these surprises and remain open to new opportunities that align with your evolving self.
6. Trusting the Process:
• The path to achieving your writing dreams might not always be clear, but trust that the challenges and detours are leading you to where you need to be.

Resources Mentioned: Soul Writer vs. Social Writer (my non-fiction book for writers)

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About Podcast -

Welcome to Becoming A Writer podcast, a space where we write freely, write fearlessly, and write forever.

In my writing life so far, one of the biggest realisations I have had is that it is not about writing and publishing a book but about becoming a writer who writes for life.

Your dream of seeing your books in your hand and in the hands of your readers is possible. But first, you have to become the writer your books deserve.

With this podcast, I want to give you the love, support, encouragement to realise, become and stay a writer for life and enjoy every moment. I want you to know that writing is not as difficult as it seems and that you can have a fun time.

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About Me -

My name is Rubina Gauri Gomes, and I am a multi-genre writer, in touch with my writer soul since 2014.

I publish my essays on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠rubinagomes.substack.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and am the author of ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Soul Writer vs. Social Writer⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, my non-fiction book for my fellow writers.

E30 - Publishing Your First Book Means Everything And Nothing.

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Episode Summary: In this episode, I reflect on the first anniversary of my non-fiction book, Soul Writer vs. Social Writer. After nearly a decade of hard work and dedication, the journey to becoming a published author has been both eye-opening and humbling. I share six valuable lessons learned from this experience that have shaped my perspective on writing and publishing.

Key Points:

1. Don't Wait for External Validation
• Embrace your identity as a writer without relying on external approval.
• Recognize that validation from others is a bonus, not a requirement for self-acceptance.
2. Strengthen Your Internal Validation
• Be your own biggest supporter and coach.
• Build your confidence and self-worth from within, viewing the solitary aspects of the journey as opportunities for personal growth.
3. One Book Doesn’t Make or Break Your Career
• Understand that the publication of your first book is just the beginning of a larger journey.
• Use the experience to learn and prepare for future projects.
4. Feeling Neutral is Okay
• It's normal to feel neutral about your book’s release if you’ve invested deeply in the process.
• Neutrality often reflects gratitude and acceptance of your work as part of a continuous journey.
5. The Fun is in the Process and Journey
• Enjoy the creative process of writing rather than focusing solely on the end result.
• Transition from one project to the next to maintain excitement and engagement with your work.
6. Write Your Next Book
• Don’t rest on your laurels; start working on your next writing project.
• Continually create to keep your audience engaged and to grow as a writer.

Resources Mentioned:Soul Writer vs. Social Writer (my non-fiction book for writers)

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About Podcast -

Welcome to Becoming A Writer podcast, a space where we write freely, write fearlessly, and write forever.

In my writing life so far, one of the biggest realisations I have had is that it is not about writing and publishing a book but about becoming a writer who writes for life.

Your dream of seeing your books in your hand and in the hands of your readers is possible. But first, you have to become the writer your books deserve.

With this podcast, I want to give you the love, support, encouragement to realise, become and stay a writer for life and enjoy every moment. I want you to know that writing is not as difficult as it seems and that you can have a fun time.

Music by: Happy Lazy Loop by Serge Quadrado (At Adobe Stock)

About Me -

My name is Rubina Gauri Gomes, and I am a multi-genre writer, in touch with my writer soul since 2014.

I publish my essays on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠rubinagomes.substack.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and am the author of ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Soul Writer vs. Social Writer⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, my non-fiction book for my fellow writers.

In celebration of the first anniversary of my non-fiction book for writers, Soul Writer vs. Social Writer, I am sharing the audiobook version of it for FREE!

Thank you for listening to Soul Writer vs. Social Writer, written and narrated by Rubina Gauri Gomes.

Ebook is available on Amazon.

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Synopsis –

There are plotters and pantsers. Outliners and discovery writers. There are poets, playwrights, screenwriters, novelists, essayists, comic writers, memoirists, teachers and coaches.

Now I would like to introduce you to two other writers - the Soul Writer and the Social Writer.

While the others are terms for readers to understand what kind of writer you are, the last two are for you to help you understand which kind of writer you are.

In this book, you will find -

• The two types of Writers in us and why it is important to know where you stand.
• Who is a Soul Writer?
• Why is it important to be a Soul Writer?
• How to know, become and stay a Soul Writer?
• Who is a Social Writer?
• Why is it important to be a Social Writer?
• How to know, become and stay a Social Writer?
• Pros and cons, differences and similarities between both.
• Examples of writers pulling this balance off effortless and successfully.
• Finding your sweet spot between the two and keeping a balance between them.

Understanding the Soul Writer and Social Writer in you will help you understand your writer nature and personality. Once you learn that, you can then shift your life that aligns with it and, therefore, create an environment - within you and outside you - that supports you to thrive as a writer.

And once you start living from that space, you’ll start having a satisfying, fulfilling and fun writing life.

About Me -

I’m Rubina Gauri Gomes, a multi-genre writer exploring mystery, suspense, and the creative life.

I share essays on writing and living creatively at rubinagomes.substack.com and I encourage writers to pursue their passion through my podcast, Becoming A Writer.

I have authored Soul Writer vs. Social Writer, a guide to discovering and embracing both the introspective Soul Writer and the engaging Social Writer within you, helping you balance these aspects for a more fulfilling writing journey.

Example Reference –

Ch 4: Who Is A Soul Writer? – Examples

Amor Towles -Website – https://www.amortowles.com/

Wikipedia - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Amor_Towles

YouTube -

Read it forward - How author Amor Towles developed his writing skills

Wall Street Journal - Amor Towles on New Novel 'A Gentleman in Moscow'

CBS Mornings - Author Amor Towles on new book "The Lincoln Highway "

Steven Pressfield -

Website – https://stevenpressfield.com/home/

Wikipedia – https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Steven_Pressfield

YouTube -Marie Forleo - Steven Pressfield: Overcoming Resistance & Why Talent Doesn’t Matter

Marie Forleo - The Truth About Overcoming Resistance w/ Steven Pressfield, Author of ‘The War of Art’

Marie Forleo - How to Accomplish Your Dreams In ONE HOUR A Day with Steven Pressfield

Daily Stoic - Steven Pressfield on Overcoming Resistance and the Value of Discipline

Rich Roll - The War of Art: Steven Pressfield

Rich Roll - OVERCOME Creative Blocks & WIN The War of Art

Ch 10: Who Is A Social Writer? – Examples

Joanna Penn -

Website – https://www.thecreativepenn.com/

YouTube – https://www.youtube.com/@thecreativepenn

Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/jfpennauthor/

Dr Julie Smith -

Website – https://doctorjuliesmith.com/

Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/drjulie/

Ch 18: Examples

Rachel Amphlett -

Website – https://www.rachelamphlett.com

E29 - Content Creation Turned Me Into A Shadow Writer.

Episode Summary: In this episode, we explore a growing trend among content creators and how it may be affecting you as well. Have you noticed that many of your favorite YouTubers from pre-COVID days have become less active, retreating from the hustle of constant content creation? We're diving into why this is happening and what it means for creators and aspiring artists.

We discuss the concept of the Shadow Artist, a term coined by Julia Cameron in her influential book The Artist's Way. A Shadow Artist is someone who is closely linked to their art but is not fully pursuing it. Instead, they may find themselves in related but less fulfilling roles.

We'll look at examples from the world of YouTube, featuring creators like Matt D'Avella and Nathaniel Drew, who have transitioned from active content creators to seeking deeper, more meaningful creative pursuits.

Key Takeaways:

• Understanding the Shadow Artist: Learn how shadow careers can keep you close to your art without truly engaging in it. Discover how this concept applies to modern content creators and their struggles.
• The Case of Matt D'Avella and Nathaniel Drew: Explore how these YouTubers faced creative dissatisfaction and their journey to reclaim their artistic freedom.
• Personal Reflection: I share my own experience as a Shadow-Writer, grappling with the balance between creating content and pursuing genuine artistic expression.
• Flipping the Script: Discover strategies to prioritize your true art over content creation. Learn how to focus your time and energy on what truly fulfills you, and how to use supplementary content to support, not overshadow, your core creative work.

Actionable Steps:

1. Reassess Your Creative Priorities: Reflect on whether your current activities align with your true artistic goals.
2. Create Art First: Focus the majority of your time and energy on creating your primary art, whether it's writing, filmmaking, painting, or any other form.
3. Supplementary Content: Use content creation as a tool to support your art, rather than allowing it to consume all your creative energy.
4. Evaluate Engagement and Fulfillment: Regularly assess whether your current creative practices are bringing you joy and satisfaction.

Resources Mentioned:

• The Artist's Way by Julia Cameron

• Matt D'Avella's YouTube Channel 1
• Channel 2
• Nathaniel Drew's YouTube Channel 1
• Channel 2

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About Podcast -

Welcome to Becoming A Writer podcast, a space where we write freely, write fearlessly, and write forever.

In my writing life so far, one of the biggest realisations I have had is that it is not about writing and publishing a book but about becoming a writer who writes for life.

Your dream of seeing your books in your hand and in the hands of your readers is possible. But first, you have to become the writer your books deserve.

With this podcast, I want to give you the love, support, encouragement to realise, become and stay a writer for life and enjoy every moment. I want you to know that writing is not as difficult as it seems and that you can have a fun time.

Music by: Happy Lazy Loop by Serge Quadrado (At Adobe Stock)

About Me -

My name is Rubina Gauri Gomes, and I am a multi-genre writer, in touch with my writer soul since 2014.

I publish my essays on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠rubinagomes.substack.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and am the author of ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Soul Writer vs. Social Writer⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, my non-fiction book for my fellow writers.

E28 - Writers, You Shouldn't Feel Guilty For Taking Breaks.

Episode Summary: In this episode, I delve into the pervasive feeling of guilt that many writers and creatives experience when taking breaks.

Drawing from personal experiences and insights, I explore the reasons behind this guilt, such as the pressure to constantly produce and the unhealthy comparisons with others.

Inspired by conversations with a close friend and the concept of Slow Productivity by Cal Newport, I discuss practical solutions to incorporate rest and fun into your creative process.

This episode emphasizes the importance of balancing productivity with self-care to prevent burnout and enhance creativity.

Key Takeaways:

• Understanding Guilt in Creativity: Explore the two main sources of guilt—waiting to rest until work is done and the feeling of "not doing enough" due to comparisons with others.
• The Right Attitude: Learn why adopting the right mindset is crucial for overcoming feelings of inadequacy and burnout.
• Daring to Write: Discover how writing is an act of daring, akin to physically daring activities, requiring emotional, mental, physical, and spiritual investment.
• Productivity vs. Pseudo-Productivity: Differentiate between true productivity and activities that give the illusion of being productive without actual progress.
• Practical Solutions:
• Remove or schedule pseudo-productive tasks after primary writing.
• Reduce the number of commitments to avoid overloading your schedule.
• Be realistic about your time and energy, recognizing that writing often happens in small pockets of time.
• Engage in high-quality hobbies to rejuvenate your creative spirit.
• Prioritize quality sleep to maintain overall well-being.
• Plan enjoyable activities to look forward to, enhancing your sense of aliveness.
• Celebrate your progress to foster a sense of accomplishment and gratitude.

Resources Mentioned:Slow Productivity by Cal Newport

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About Podcast -

Welcome to Becoming A Writer podcast, a space where we write freely, write fearlessly, and write forever.

In my writing life so far, one of the biggest realisations I have had is that it is not about writing and publishing a book but about becoming a writer who writes for life.

Your dream of seeing your books in your hand and in the hands of your readers is possible. But first, you have to become the writer your books deserve.

With this podcast, I want to give you the love, support, encouragement to realise, become and stay a writer for life and enjoy every moment. I want you to know that writing is not as difficult as it seems and that you can have a fun time.

About Me -

My name is Rubina Gauri Gomes, and I am a multi-genre writer, in touch with my writer soul since 2014.

I write novels and short stories, usually centred around mystery and suspense. And I write essays about what it means to live a creative life as a writer and human.

I publish my essays on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠rubinagomes.substack.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and am the author of ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Soul Writer vs. Social Writer⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, my non-fiction book for my fellow writers.

E27 - Sorry Ego, I Am Embracing The Change And Pivoting.

Episode Summary - In this episode, I share my journey of navigating change in my creative life, inspired by the lessons from Dr. Spencer Johnson’s book Who Moved My Cheese?.

I discuss how I’ve decided to let go of my Medium page, which has been underperforming, and shift my focus to my podcast and Substack, where I’ve found unexpected growth and potential.

This decision comes after months of frustration, introspection, and a realization that staying in my comfort zone was holding me back.

Key Takeaways -

• Who Moved My Cheese? by Dr. Spencer Johnson serves as a metaphorical backdrop for my experience, with its themes of change and adaptability.
• The importance of recognizing when something isn’t working anymore and the courage it takes to pivot toward new opportunities.
• How burnout and creative exhaustion led me to reassess my approach to content creation and social media.
• My decision to shut down my Medium page and focus on what truly brings me joy—writing books and podcasting.
• The new schedule for my essays and podcast episodes, designed to create space for creativity and rest.
• The importance of taking guilt-free breaks and not allowing the pressure of constant productivity to overshadow your creative health.

Resources Mentioned - ⁠Who Moved My Cheese?⁠⁠ by Dr. Spencer Johnson⁠

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Produced By: Rubina Gauri Gomes, Books She Has Read, And Life Lessons She Has Learnt

Written By: Rubina Gauri Gomes

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Made With Love, For Fellow Writers And Creatives.🤍

About Podcast -

Welcome to Becoming A Writer podcast, a space where we write freely, write fearlessly, and write forever.

In my writing life so far, one of the biggest realisations I have had is that it is not about writing and publishing a book but about becoming a writer who writes for life.

Your dream of seeing your books in your hand and in the hands of your readers is possible. But first, you have to become the writer your books deserve.

With this podcast, I want to give you the love, support, encouragement to realise, become and stay a writer for life and enjoy every moment. I want you to know that writing is not as difficult as it seems and that you can have a fun time.

About Me -

My name is Rubina Gauri Gomes, and I am a multi-genre writer, in touch with my writer soul since 2014.

I write novels and short stories, usually centred around mystery and suspense. And I write essays about what it means to live a creative life as a writer and human.

I publish my essays on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠rubinagomes.substack.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and am the author of ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Soul Writer vs. Social Writer⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, my non-fiction book for my fellow writers.

E26 - A Silly Trick That Will Get You Into The Writing Mood.

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Written By: Rubina Gauri Gomes

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Made With Love, For Fellow Writers And Creatives.🤍

About Podcast -

Welcome to Becoming A Writer podcast, a space where we write freely, write fearlessly, and write forever.

In my writing life so far, one of the biggest realisations I have had is that it is not about writing and publishing a book but about becoming a writer who writes for life.

Your dream of seeing your books in your hand and in the hands of your readers is possible. But first, you have to become the writer your books deserve.

With this podcast, I want to give you the love, support, encouragement to realise, become and stay a writer for life and enjoy every moment. I want you to know that writing is not as difficult as it seems and that you can have a fun time.

About Me -

My name is Rubina Gauri Gomes, and I am a multi-genre writer, in touch with my writer soul since 2014.

I write novels and short stories, usually centred around mystery and suspense. And I write essays about what it means to live a creative life as a writer and human.

I publish my essays on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠rubinagomes.substack.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and am the author of ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Soul Writer vs. Social Writer⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, my non-fiction book for my fellow writers.

E25 - Once You Accept You Are A Writer, You Are One For Life.

📚 My non-fiction book for writers -

Soul Writer vs. Social Writer - Find Out Which One Are You?, Why Is It Important, and Finding Your Sweet Spot.

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Produced By: Rubina Gauri Gomes, Books She Has Read, And Life Lessons She Has Learnt

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Music by: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Happy Lazy Loop by Serge Quadrado⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (At Adobe Stock)

Audio-Visual Edited By: Rubina Gauri Gomes

Marketed By: Rubina Gauri Gomes

Fueled By: Coffee ☕

Made With Love, For Fellow Writers And Creatives.🤍

About Podcast -

Welcome to Becoming A Writer podcast, a space where we write freely, write fearlessly, and write forever.

In my writing life so far, one of the biggest realisations I have had is that it is not about writing and publishing a book but about becoming a writer who writes for life.

Your dream of seeing your books in your hand and in the hands of your readers is possible. But first, you have to become the writer your books deserve.

With this podcast, I want to give you the love, support, encouragement to realise, become and stay a writer for life and enjoy every moment. I want you to know that writing is not as difficult as it seems and that you can have a fun time.

About Me -

My name is Rubina Gauri Gomes, and I am a multi-genre writer, in touch with my writer soul since 2014.

I write novels and short stories, usually centred around mystery and suspense. And I write essays about what it means to live a creative life as a writer and human.

I publish my essays on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠rubinagomes.substack.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and am the author of ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Soul Writer vs. Social Writer⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, my non-fiction book for my fellow writers.

E24 - We Are Actually Doing Our Best - For Ourselves And Our Writing.

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Soul Writer vs. Social Writer - Find Out Which One Are You?, Why Is It Important, and Finding Your Sweet Spot.

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A Rubina’s Bojra Production

Directed By: Rubina Gauri Gomes

Produced By: Rubina Gauri Gomes, Books She Has Read, And Life Lessons She Has Learnt

Written By: Rubina Gauri Gomes

Host & Voice Talent: Rubina Gauri Gomes

Music by: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Happy Lazy Loop by Serge Quadrado⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (At Adobe Stock)

Audio-Visual Edited By: Rubina Gauri Gomes

Marketed By: Rubina Gauri Gomes

Fueled By: Coffee ☕

Made With Love, For Fellow Writers And Creatives.🤍

About Podcast -

Welcome to Becoming A Writer podcast, a space where we write freely, write fearlessly, and write forever.

In my writing life so far, one of the biggest realisations I have had is that it is not about writing and publishing a book but about becoming a writer who writes for life.

Your dream of seeing your books in your hand and in the hands of your readers is possible. But first, you have to become the writer your books deserve.

With this podcast, I want to give you the love, support, encouragement to realise, become and stay a writer for life and enjoy every moment. I want you to know that writing is not as difficult as it seems and that you can have a fun time.

About Me -

My name is Rubina Gauri Gomes, and I am a multi-genre writer, in touch with my writer soul since 2014.

I write novels and short stories, usually centred around mystery and suspense. And I write essays about what it means to live a creative life as a writer and human.

I publish my essays on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠rubinagomes.substack.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and am the author of ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Soul Writer vs. Social Writer⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, my non-fiction book for my fellow writers.

E23 - Why We Have A Hard Time Moving On To Our Next Writing Project And Why It Is Important To Do So?

📚 My non-fiction book for writers -

Soul Writer vs. Social Writer - Find Out Which One Are You?, Why Is It Important, and Finding Your Sweet Spot.

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A Rubina’s Bojra Production

Directed By: Rubina Gauri Gomes

Produced By: Rubina Gauri Gomes, Books She Has Read, And Life Lessons She Has Learnt

Written By: Rubina Gauri Gomes

Host & Voice Talent: Rubina Gauri Gomes

Music by: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Happy Lazy Loop by Serge Quadrado⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (At Adobe Stock)

Audio-Visual Edited By: Rubina Gauri Gomes

Marketed By: Rubina Gauri Gomes

Fueled By: Coffee ☕

Made With Love, For Fellow Writers And Creatives.🤍

About Podcast -

Welcome to Becoming A Writer podcast, a space where we write freely, write fearlessly, and write forever.

In my writing life so far, one of the biggest realisations I have had is that it is not about writing and publishing a book but about becoming a writer who writes for life.

Your dream of seeing your books in your hand and in the hands of your readers is possible. But first, you have to become the writer your books deserve.

With this podcast, I want to give you the love, support, encouragement to realise, become and stay a writer for life and enjoy every moment. I want you to know that writing is not as difficult as it seems and that you can have a fun time.

About Me -

My name is Rubina Gauri Gomes, and I am a multi-genre writer, in touch with my writer soul since 2014.

I write novels and short stories, usually centred around mystery and suspense. And I write essays about what it means to live a creative life as a writer and human.

I publish my essays on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠rubinagomes.substack.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and am the author of ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Soul Writer vs. Social Writer⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, my non-fiction book for my fellow writers.