She’s strong. She’s got it. She always shows up.

But no one ever asks if she’s okay.

In this episode of Becoming, Sarah La’Joy opens up about what it feels like to be the safe place for everyone — while silently screaming on the inside. From oldest daughter pressure to invisible burnout, she shares what happens when your needs go unmet for so long, you forget they even exist.

This one’s for the strong friend. The firstborn. The woman who’s tired of performing strength and finally ready to be seen.

Scripture anchor: Psalm 55:22 (ERV)

Affirmation: I no longer silence my needs to protect someone else’s comfort. I matter — even when I’m not doing anything.

🎧 Tap play and make space for the soft, honest truth:

Support shouldn’t only come after you break.It should hold you before you do.