What does parenting do to us? Why do we do it? Why is there such a huge gap between what we think parenting will be and what it is? What are the jobs of Mums and Dads now: What’s a dad when he’s no longer just a provider, what’s a mum when she quite often is? Why, when we think having children will bring us together, does it so often push us apart? How do I know what to teach and model for my children when I don’t know what the world is going to look like in five years time? Why did my parents seem to have so much conviction about these things and I have absolutely none?
Well, I don’t know but luckily there are some really clever people all over the world who are thinking about these things and they’ve agreed to talk to me. So maybe we won’t be able to answer all these questions every week but maybe if we listen to their ideas we can gain some insight and some wisdom and maybe most importantly some perspective and find out what it takes to be a happier parent.
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What does parenting do to us? Why do we do it? Why is there such a huge gap between what we think parenting will be and what it is? What are the jobs of Mums and Dads now: What’s a dad when he’s no longer just a provider, what’s a mum when she quite often is? Why, when we think having children will bring us together, does it so often push us apart? How do I know what to teach and model for my children when I don’t know what the world is going to look like in five years time? Why did my parents seem to have so much conviction about these things and I have absolutely none?
Well, I don’t know but luckily there are some really clever people all over the world who are thinking about these things and they’ve agreed to talk to me. So maybe we won’t be able to answer all these questions every week but maybe if we listen to their ideas we can gain some insight and some wisdom and maybe most importantly some perspective and find out what it takes to be a happier parent.
Ep 6: The Impossible Age of Masculinity with Ruth Whippman
Be a Happier Parent
52 minutes 21 seconds
5 months ago
Ep 6: The Impossible Age of Masculinity with Ruth Whippman
Summary
In this conversation, Ruth and Alexindadland explore the complexities of parenting boys in a modern context, discussing the language used around gender, the emotional development of boys, and the societal pressures that shape parenting decisions. They delve into the challenges of raising boys amidst discussions of toxic masculinity, the impact of screen time, and the ethical dilemmas parents face. The conversation highlights the need for understanding and compassion in parenting, as well as the importance of addressing emotional health in boys.
Chapters
00:00 Understanding Neurodiversity in Children04:37 The Language of Gender in Parenting06:23 The Emotional Landscape of Boys09:25 The Impact of Parenting Styles12:02 Coping with Tantrums and Meltdowns15:15 The Ethical Dilemmas of Modern Parenting17:57 The Pressure of Parenting Expectations20:59 Anger and Disassociation in Parenting27:09 Emotional Presence in Parenting28:31 Navigating Screen Time and Guilt31:17 The Complexity of Screen Time for Boys34:38 Finding Balance with Video Games37:40 Conversations About Consent and Pornography44:08 Navigating Modern Relationships and Consent49:22 Perpetual Arguments in Parenting
Takeaways
The language we use around boys and girls can shape their identities.Parenting boys comes with unique societal pressures and expectations.Boys often receive less emotional support than girls, impacting their development.Ethical dilemmas in parenting arise from societal expectations and personal beliefs.Anger is often the only acceptable emotion for boys, complicating their emotional development.Modern motherhood is fraught with guilt and high expectations.Screen time can displace real-world social interactions for boys.Boys are navigating a complex landscape of consent and masculinity today.Communication and understanding are key in relationships, both with children and partners.Parenting is a journey filled with uncertainty and requires adaptability.
Keywords
parenting, boys, emotional development, gender dynamics, motherhood, screen time, consent, masculinity, ethical dilemmas, societal pressures
Be a Happier Parent
What does parenting do to us? Why do we do it? Why is there such a huge gap between what we think parenting will be and what it is? What are the jobs of Mums and Dads now: What’s a dad when he’s no longer just a provider, what’s a mum when she quite often is? Why, when we think having children will bring us together, does it so often push us apart? How do I know what to teach and model for my children when I don’t know what the world is going to look like in five years time? Why did my parents seem to have so much conviction about these things and I have absolutely none?
Well, I don’t know but luckily there are some really clever people all over the world who are thinking about these things and they’ve agreed to talk to me. So maybe we won’t be able to answer all these questions every week but maybe if we listen to their ideas we can gain some insight and some wisdom and maybe most importantly some perspective and find out what it takes to be a happier parent.
