What does parenting do to us? Why do we do it? Why is there such a huge gap between what we think parenting will be and what it is? What are the jobs of Mums and Dads now: What’s a dad when he’s no longer just a provider, what’s a mum when she quite often is? Why, when we think having children will bring us together, does it so often push us apart? How do I know what to teach and model for my children when I don’t know what the world is going to look like in five years time? Why did my parents seem to have so much conviction about these things and I have absolutely none?
Well, I don’t know but luckily there are some really clever people all over the world who are thinking about these things and they’ve agreed to talk to me. So maybe we won’t be able to answer all these questions every week but maybe if we listen to their ideas we can gain some insight and some wisdom and maybe most importantly some perspective and find out what it takes to be a happier parent.
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What does parenting do to us? Why do we do it? Why is there such a huge gap between what we think parenting will be and what it is? What are the jobs of Mums and Dads now: What’s a dad when he’s no longer just a provider, what’s a mum when she quite often is? Why, when we think having children will bring us together, does it so often push us apart? How do I know what to teach and model for my children when I don’t know what the world is going to look like in five years time? Why did my parents seem to have so much conviction about these things and I have absolutely none?
Well, I don’t know but luckily there are some really clever people all over the world who are thinking about these things and they’ve agreed to talk to me. So maybe we won’t be able to answer all these questions every week but maybe if we listen to their ideas we can gain some insight and some wisdom and maybe most importantly some perspective and find out what it takes to be a happier parent.
Ep 24: The Damaging Myth of the "Natural Mother" with Rose Stokes
Be a Happier Parent
52 minutes
4 days ago
Ep 24: The Damaging Myth of the "Natural Mother" with Rose Stokes
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Keywords
parenthood, parenting, expectations, relationships, motherhood, fatherhood, identity, support, communication, growth
Summary
In this conversation, Alex and Rose explore the multifaceted journey of parenthood, discussing the challenges, expectations, and realities that come with raising children. They delve into the impact of societal pressures, the importance of trusting one's instincts, and the evolving dynamics between partners in parenting. The conversation highlights the significance of communication, compromise, and embracing imperfection in the parenting experience.
Takeaways
You don't truly understand parenthood until you experience it.The transition into parenthood is a long and complex process.Expectations from society can create unnecessary anxiety for new parents.Information overload can lead to guilt and confusion in parenting.Trusting your instincts is crucial in navigating parenthood.Parenting is a skill that develops over time through experience.Partners play a vital role in supporting each other during parenting.Communication and understanding between partners can alleviate pressure.It's important to embrace imperfection and learn from mistakes in parenting.Finding balance and compromise is essential for a healthy family dynamic.
Titles
The Realities of Parenthood UnveiledNavigating the Complexities of Parenting
Sound bites
"You don't get it until you get it.""It's a long thinking process.""We both do it together."
Chapters
00:00 Navigating the Complexities of Motherhood05:31 The Impact of Breastfeeding on Identity14:01 The Emotional Journey of Parenting19:59 Partner Dynamics in Parenting24:34 Balancing Roles and Responsibilities29:31 Imaginative Play: A Dad's Perspective32:14 Navigating Parenting Expectations35:02 The Overload of Parenting Information36:54 Trusting Parental Instincts38:44 The Dynamics of Partner Support40:42 The Reality of Parenting Challenges42:07 The Importance of Compromise in Parenting44:48 The Struggles of Weight and Body Image46:15 Communication and Conflict in Relationships52:25 NEWCHAPTER
Be a Happier Parent
What does parenting do to us? Why do we do it? Why is there such a huge gap between what we think parenting will be and what it is? What are the jobs of Mums and Dads now: What’s a dad when he’s no longer just a provider, what’s a mum when she quite often is? Why, when we think having children will bring us together, does it so often push us apart? How do I know what to teach and model for my children when I don’t know what the world is going to look like in five years time? Why did my parents seem to have so much conviction about these things and I have absolutely none?
Well, I don’t know but luckily there are some really clever people all over the world who are thinking about these things and they’ve agreed to talk to me. So maybe we won’t be able to answer all these questions every week but maybe if we listen to their ideas we can gain some insight and some wisdom and maybe most importantly some perspective and find out what it takes to be a happier parent.
