What does parenting do to us? Why do we do it? Why is there such a huge gap between what we think parenting will be and what it is? What are the jobs of Mums and Dads now: What’s a dad when he’s no longer just a provider, what’s a mum when she quite often is? Why, when we think having children will bring us together, does it so often push us apart? How do I know what to teach and model for my children when I don’t know what the world is going to look like in five years time? Why did my parents seem to have so much conviction about these things and I have absolutely none?
Well, I don’t know but luckily there are some really clever people all over the world who are thinking about these things and they’ve agreed to talk to me. So maybe we won’t be able to answer all these questions every week but maybe if we listen to their ideas we can gain some insight and some wisdom and maybe most importantly some perspective and find out what it takes to be a happier parent.
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What does parenting do to us? Why do we do it? Why is there such a huge gap between what we think parenting will be and what it is? What are the jobs of Mums and Dads now: What’s a dad when he’s no longer just a provider, what’s a mum when she quite often is? Why, when we think having children will bring us together, does it so often push us apart? How do I know what to teach and model for my children when I don’t know what the world is going to look like in five years time? Why did my parents seem to have so much conviction about these things and I have absolutely none?
Well, I don’t know but luckily there are some really clever people all over the world who are thinking about these things and they’ve agreed to talk to me. So maybe we won’t be able to answer all these questions every week but maybe if we listen to their ideas we can gain some insight and some wisdom and maybe most importantly some perspective and find out what it takes to be a happier parent.
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Keywords
household roles, domestic labor, marital satisfaction, Fair Play system, emotional labor, financial conversations, parenting, money values, relationship dynamics, pandemic impact
Summary
In this conversation, Brian Page discusses the evolving roles of men and women in household management, particularly in the context of the pandemic. He emphasizes the benefits of shared domestic labor, including increased marital satisfaction and personal happiness for men. The discussion also covers the Fair Play system, which aims to create efficiency in household tasks, and the emotional dynamics that arise from managing a home. Additionally, the conversation touches on the importance of financial discussions in relationships and how to teach children about money and values.
Takeaways
Shared household labor leads to greater marital satisfaction.Men report higher personal happiness when involved in domestic tasks.Being a domestic safety net allows for authentic self-expression.Understanding emotional labor is crucial for efficient household management.The Fair Play system promotes equitable task ownership in homes.Financial discussions should happen when emotions are low for clarity.Teaching children about money can shape their values and character.Regular money dates can help couples manage finances better.Appreciation for each other's contributions is vital in relationships.Navigating household roles requires open communication and empathy.
Titles
Redefining Masculinity in Domestic SpacesThe Joy of Shared Household Responsibilities
Sound bites
"You can't weaponize this either.""Use money to shape who they are.""Always start with the good stuff."
Chapters
00:00 Embracing Change: The Empty Nester Transition03:34 The Birth of Modern Husbands: A Personal Journey06:01 The Benefits of Shared Household Responsibilities08:06 Understanding Domestic Labor: Mental Load and Efficiency10:44 Navigating Societal Expectations: The Financial Provider Dilemma12:52 Fair Play: A System for Equitable Household Management15:42 Emotional Labor and Relationship Dynamics17:56 The Importance of Appreciation in Relationships20:51 Negotiating Household Standards: Finding Common Ground23:33 The Evolving Role of Men in Domestic Spaces32:03 Navigating the Messy World of Caregiving34:20 Balancing Relationships and Parenting36:31 Practical Tips for Couples with Young Kids38:07 Understanding Perpetual Arguments in Relationships43:32 The Economics of Caregiving and Financial Decisions53:33 Learning Through Conflict and Money Conversations
Be a Happier Parent
What does parenting do to us? Why do we do it? Why is there such a huge gap between what we think parenting will be and what it is? What are the jobs of Mums and Dads now: What’s a dad when he’s no longer just a provider, what’s a mum when she quite often is? Why, when we think having children will bring us together, does it so often push us apart? How do I know what to teach and model for my children when I don’t know what the world is going to look like in five years time? Why did my parents seem to have so much conviction about these things and I have absolutely none?
Well, I don’t know but luckily there are some really clever people all over the world who are thinking about these things and they’ve agreed to talk to me. So maybe we won’t be able to answer all these questions every week but maybe if we listen to their ideas we can gain some insight and some wisdom and maybe most importantly some perspective and find out what it takes to be a happier parent.
