Michael (01:10)
Michael delves into the psychological origins of his submissive side, particularly his attraction to straight men. He explains the concept of a "straight hierarchy" within some gay BDSM dynamics, where straight men are placed at the pinnacle of desire. He traces his own connection to this hierarchy back to his adolescence, where his primary male attachments were formed through being bullied by his straight brother and peers at school.
His key realisation is that when he experiences an "attachment injury" in his present life—such as feeling rejected or missing an ex—he subconsciously retreats to the familiar and predictable power dynamics of his youth. Seeking out straight men to humiliate him is a way to return to a simplistic and unconflicted form of bonding where he understands his place, providing a strange sense of security and belonging in moments of emotional pain.
Indy (25:45)
Indy provides updates on several fronts. She recounts a recent interaction with a highly interested submissive who abruptly ghosted her after an online session. This experience reinforces her theory that for many submissives, interest evaporates after orgasm, possibly due to a shame response.
In a more positive and surreal turn of events, she discovers that a submissive she knows has, by sheer coincidence, moved into the house directly across the street. This presents an unexpected opportunity to explore the deeper, companion-style BDSM connection she has been seeking. Finally, she expresses her intense frustration with men on conventional dating apps who repeatedly ignore her boundaries and try to sexualise conversations before meeting. In response, she has adopted a new strategy of creating a completely "vanilla-ised" dating profile, removing any mention of kink or sex to attract more respectful initial connections.
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