First impressions can speak louder than a thousand conversations. In this episode, we’ll unpack the subtle—and sometimes surprising—ways we come off to other people. Are you actually intimidating, or are they just feeling intimidated? We’ll explore the difference, and why it matters for your relationships, career, and confidence.

We’ll look at the unspoken cues you send—your body language, tone of voice, word choice, and even the pace of your walk—and how they shape the story others tell themselves about you. You’ll hear real-life examples of people who’ve been labeled “intimidating” when they were simply confident, reserved, or focused, and how self-awareness can flip the narrative.

From self-reflection prompts to small behavioral tweaks, this episode will help you understand what you might be projecting, and how to decide if you even want to change it. After all, first impressions are powerful—but they don’t have to define the whole relationship.