Why I chose a special school for my child?
As a parent to a special child, I often get asked why I didn’t opt for an inclusive school—especially since I actively advocate for inclusion.
Here’s my honest answer:
1. Limited Support in Inclusive Schools
Most inclusive schools offer a special educator for just 30 minutes to an hour a day. Beyond that, our children spend time with neurotypical peers and teachers who are not specifically trained to support their unique needs.
2. Therapy Needs Are Often Ignored
Inclusive schools usually don’t provide essential services like speech therapy, occupational therapy, or individualized special education—services that are not optional but critical for a child with special needs to thrive.
3. Choosing What’s Right Over What Looks Right
Sometimes, we parents fall into the trap of satisfying our ego—just to say, “My child goes to a regular/inclusive school.” But this journey is not about me; it’s about him. I would never want my child to miss out on the support he truly needs just so I can feel accepted or proud in front of others.
Special schools are designed for kids like mine. They are equipped with trained professionals, personalized attention, and integrated therapies that help children flourish at their own pace.
Inclusion is beautiful—but only when it supports the child’s needs. And sometimes, true inclusion means choosing a space where your child feels understood, supported, and celebrated. #inclusion #inclusive #asd #autism #autismsupportandawareness #autismacceptancemonth #autismawarenessmonth #awareness #autismawarness #special #parent #father #mother #parenting #specialneedsparenting #specialneedskids #needs #celebration #reelitfeelit #virals #viralreels #today #top #toptags #toptan #specialschool