Vulva Insecurities, Oral Sex, and Orgasm Land

Welcome back to Asking for Myself, where I ask all the questions you're too afraid to. Today we’re talking all things oral sex. In this episode, I am joined by sex therapist Casey Tanner and sexologist and educator Goody Howard. And I’ve got a lot of questions. Including?

• How can people overcome their vulva insecurities?
• Are vulva insecurities heightened when both partners share the same parts?
• What’s up with the oral sex gap? Why are blowjobs more normalized than going down on someone/cunnilingus or whatever you want to call oral sex on a vulva?
• Can we have a healthy sex life if we aren’t comfortable in our own bodies?
• What the heck is compersion and why is it important for sexual pleasure?
• How do givers get more comfortable receiving?
• Is it okay if your partner doesn’t want to go down on you? What can you do in this scenario if it’s an issue?
• Why is there an oral sex taboo in the Black community?
• Why isn’t oral sex seen as “real sex”?

Trust me, you’re gonna want to tune into this juicy conversation. 💦

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