“It’s hard to quantify a feeling you haven’t experienced yet. So much of deciding to have kids is deciding to let go and have faith you will love these little humans and it’s going to be worth all of the sacrifice and effort.” - Alissa Alissa was ambivalent about children, until she started trying to have one and the process didn’t work out as expected. Then she got competitive. Alissa talks about how acknowledging she did, in fact, want children meant she was admitting something was missing ...