This candid and vulnerable conversation between Jake & Olivia explores four common myths about relationships and how they can limit connection, growth, and authenticity—whether you’re single or partnered.   We unpack the cultural narratives that tell us someone else should “complete” us, that change is dangerous to a relationship, that conflict is a sign of failure, and that there’s only one “true” reality between two people. With humor, stories, and spiritual insight, this talk is an invitation to embrace change, navigate conflict with grace, and cultivate deeper connection by truly seeing and supporting one another.   Quotes:   It is not the responsibility of your partner to make you happy. That is your job. And until you accept that, you will never be truly happy in a relationship. — Elizabeth Gilbert The romantic view is that our partners are here to make us whole. The wiser view is that they are here to help us become ourselves. — Alain de Botton The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed. — Carl Jung Most people are going to have two or three relationships or marriages in their lifetime. Some of us are going to do it with the same person. — Esther Perel The success of a relationship is not measured by how few arguments you have, but by how gracefully you navigate the ones that inevitably arise. — Alain de Botton It’s not about solving the problem. It’s about being present with each other in the midst of it… You don’t need to fix your partner’s feelings. You need to show them they’re not alone in them. — Sue Johnson One of the most important skills in intimacy is learning to tolerate two different realities at the same time. — Terry Real Empathy is not connecting to an experience, it’s connecting to the emotions that underpin the experience. That means we don’t have to have the same story to feel with someone. — Brené Brown