In this deeply personal episode, Tam opens up about her journey through separation and healing. She reflects on the emotional process of letting go. Realizing that you will never forget, but replaying the hurts and the trauma keeps you stuck. There is no set time on grieving 25 years and unless you've been there, you won't really understand.
She revisits the raw truth behind her book, From Under a Rock, published on November 22, 2022. With a couple of updates and hints as to when her next book will come along.
Tam shares powerful insights into the importance of not staying stuck in your story—even when that story has shaped your life in painful and profound ways. Through honest reflection and uplifting quotes, she explores how we can all choose to stop feeding our pain, and instead, transform it. And yes, it does take lots and lots of time. There is no magic eraser.
This episode is not just about surviving heartbreak—it’s about learning to release it, reclaim your peace, and build something beautiful from the broken pieces.
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✨ What You’ll Hear In This Episode:
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💬 Tam Says:
“You can survive trauma, but survival isn’t the end goal—peacefulness is.”
“Hurt is real. Healing is a choice. And peace is possible.”
“Let the story die. It doesn’t define you anymore.”
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💞 For Listeners:
If you’re currently walking through separation, loss, or letting go of a painful chapter—this episode is a reminder that you’re not alone. Healing doesn’t mean pretending it didn’t hurt. It means choosing to stop letting the pain own you. Marriage is hard, divorce is hard. Choose your hard.
