Ngeleked Budel literally translates "our outer child or skin child" or the child that we don't really care much about

Ngeleked Chelsel or Metechelsel literally translates "inner child" or the favorite child

So this is a lesson for women and married people who choose to adopt children from their brothers that you should love that child more than the child who came from you're womb.

There is a saying in Palauan cultures that goes, "If and when you adopt a child, you should love that child more than your biological children because you have no idea how much pain and effort and everything that went into bringing that child into this world."