Account Management Secrets is the go-to podcast for Account Managers, the unsung heroes driving over 70% of your company’s revenue. Hosted by Alex Raymond, a leader in the field, this podcast delivers weekly insights, strategies, and tools to help you excel in your role. Whether navigating client relationships, preparing for Quarterly Business Reviews, or driving growth, each episode offers actionable advice you can use immediately.
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Account Management Secrets is the go-to podcast for Account Managers, the unsung heroes driving over 70% of your company’s revenue. Hosted by Alex Raymond, a leader in the field, this podcast delivers weekly insights, strategies, and tools to help you excel in your role. Whether navigating client relationships, preparing for Quarterly Business Reviews, or driving growth, each episode offers actionable advice you can use immediately.
Brought to you by AMplify, the elite community for Account Managers looking to boost their careers, build skills, and expand their networks. Start your journey at https://amplifyam.com.
Don't Confuse Being Liked with Being Effective | EP46
Account Management Secrets
42 minutes
3 months ago
Don't Confuse Being Liked with Being Effective | EP46
Too many account managers confuse being liked with being effective and it’s costing them renewals, influence, and growth. Chad Horenfeldt, the VP of Customer Success at Siena AI and author of “The Strategic Customer Success Manager,” joins Alex Raymond to talk about the people-pleaser trap and how to break out of it. They unpack the four identity traps that keep account managers stuck in reactive mode: the firefighter, entertainer, fixer, and waiter, and why those well-meaning habits quietly erode trust and impact.
Chad shares tactical frameworks like motivational interviewing and radical customer candor, showing how curiosity, preparation, and self-awareness can lead to better business outcomes, stronger client relationships, and more personal wellbeing on the job.
If you’ve ever walked away from a “great” client meeting only to lose the account later, Alex and Chad’s conversation will help you rethink your role and lead more strategically in today’s fast-moving world of entrepreneurship and customer success.
Episode Breakdown:
00:00 The People Pleaser Trap in Account Management
04:02 Why Being Helpful Doesn’t Prevent Churn
06:06 Identity Traps: Firefighter, Waiter, Fixer, Entertainer
12:23 How to Build Trust and Lead with Confidence
20:25 Motivational Interviewing Techniques for Client Conversations
24:41 Disruptive Questions That Shift Client Mindsets
31:34 Practicing Radical Customer Candor
36:26 Building Stronger Client Relationships Through Strategic Disclosure
41:19 Small Shifts That Lead to Long-Term Growth
Links
Connect with Chad Horenfeldt:
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chadhorenfeldt/
Website: https://www.strategiccustomersuccess.com/
Connect with Alex Raymond:
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/afraymond/
Website: https://amplifyam.com/
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Account Management Secrets
Account Management Secrets is the go-to podcast for Account Managers, the unsung heroes driving over 70% of your company’s revenue. Hosted by Alex Raymond, a leader in the field, this podcast delivers weekly insights, strategies, and tools to help you excel in your role. Whether navigating client relationships, preparing for Quarterly Business Reviews, or driving growth, each episode offers actionable advice you can use immediately.
Brought to you by AMplify, the elite community for Account Managers looking to boost their careers, build skills, and expand their networks. Start your journey at https://amplifyam.com.
