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✰ ABOUT ✰
This one is close to my heart. In this episode, I sit down with two of my closest friends, Maliaka and Tshegetso, for a real and honest conversation about what friendship looks like in adulthood- the beautiful, the hard, and the in-between.
We grew up watching rom-coms where the “best friend” character always had it all figured out, but real life doesn’t look like that. Between work, money, growing responsibilities, and trying to show up for ourselves, friendship can start to feel… complicated.
So, we decided to talk about it–the distance that sometimes creeps in, the moments we’ve drifted, and the ways we’re learning to hold space for each other now that life isn’t as simple as it used to be.
We also dive into:
Why friendship feels harder as we get older.
The difference between drifting apart and simply growing up.
How money can shift the dynamic between friends.
What showing up looks like in this season of our lives.
Why sisterhood still matters-maybe now more than ever.
✰ TIMESTAMPS✰
00:00 - Coming Up
00:43 - The best friend character in rom coms
03:36 - Introducing Maliaka & Tshegetso
05:27 - The girls meet cute stories
10:47 - Dilemma 1: Why is friendship so hard?
12:38 -The challenges’s of friendship now vs in the early 20’s
20:28 - Maliaka & Tshegetso’s response to the dilemma
27:34 - What the girls miss about friendship then vs what they value now
32:29 - Dilemma 2: When money changes friendship.
33:38 - Maliaka and Tshegetso’s response to the dilemma
41:30 - How necessary is it to be transparent about finances with friends?
49:21 -The title and genre of the movie that Maliaka & Tshegetso are casting Bokang in
52:23 - The post credit scene
55:22 - Afterthoughts
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✰ BUSINESS INQUIRIES ✰
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✰ TEAM/CREDITS ✰
Director: Bokang Lehlokoe
Producer: Bokang Lehlokoe & Tshegetso Moepi
Production Assistant: Denga Madzivhandila
Editor: Palesa Radebe