In episode six entitled "Toys", we asked the question what is your intention when you buy your children toys? Is the intent to buy a toy that will allow you and your child to share an experience or is your intention to give them something to do in your absence. In this episode we expand on that thought with a few more observations.
First, what types of toys or entertainment are you providing for your children? Do these toys inspire creativity, provide a skill set of some type, Inspire connectivity or promote a type of healthy living? If no, why not? Play time for children is not just an escape but a formidable training ground that will stay with them for the rest of their lives. If you are only putting technology (phones, video games, screens, etc.) in front of them you are robbing them of valuable life skills.
Second, why do we think it is important for a parent to play with a child:
-Playing with your kids toys gives the parent and the child something to bond over that the child can have with them when the parent is not present.
-Stress release for the both of you. Children are masters of creative play, why not let them lead you in play time.
-Learning to communicate with each other in a fun environment. You child is a different person from you and you need to get to know who they are as a person.
-Building trust through happy moments. You are probably building trust through leading but try to build trust though joyful moments.
Playing with your children is one of the healthiest things you can do for you and your children. Go play with your kids and watch your life get better.
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