In this episode of A Feminist in Progress, I discuss the second chapter of "All About Love: New Visions" by bell hooks, which focuses on childhood love lessons. Hooks presents two types of scenarios that children grow up in, those who are punished for misdeeds and those whose needs are met but not necessarily their desires. Both groups learn to think about love primarily in relation to good feelings and reward and punishment. Hooks also emphasizes the importance of demystifying the meaning of love and ensuring that loving action is never tainted with abuse. She suggests setting boundaries and teaching children how to set boundaries for themselves prior to misbehavior as an essential part of loving parenting. When we love children, we acknowledge by our every action that they are not property, that they have rights, and that we respect and uphold their rights. Without justice, there can be no love. Listen now to learn more about childhood love lessons and how we can ensure children receive love without abuse.

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