We both struggle with OCD but in very different forms, so we figured we'd squash the stigma and just talk about it, damn it! In this episode, we share the most vulnerable un-truths our OCD tells us daily and tips in not letting it overcome us, in hopes someone out there feels less alone ❤️FIND US ELSEWHERE! ⬇️Our OF: @keara.lavren https://linktr.ee/kearagravesKEARA:INSTAGTAM - @kearagraves TIKTOK - @keara.gravesYOUTUBE - @KearaGraves LAUREN:INSTAGRAM - @whatsuplavrenTIKTOK - @whatsuplavrenYOUTUBE - @whatsuplavren
Today we dive into what it's REALLY like to be AuDHD from Lauren's perspective of having both ADHD and Autism.
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KEARA:
INSTAGTAM - @kearagraves
TIKTOK - @keara.graves
YOUTUBE - @KearaGraves
LAUREN:
INSTAGRAM - @whatsuplavren
TIKTOK - @whatsuplavren
YOUTUBE - @whatsuplavren
We chat all about how we survived long distance as a wlw couple living in 2 DIFFERENT COUNTRIES!! and how you can survive long distance too ❤️FIND US ELSEWHERE! ⬇️Our OF: @keara.lavren https://linktr.ee/kearagravesKEARA:INSTAGTAM - @kearagraves TIKTOK - @keara.gravesYOUTUBE - @KearaGraves LAUREN:INSTAGRAM - @whatsuplavrenTIKTOK - @whatsuplavrenYOUTUBE - @whatsuplavren
Taking a look at our childhoods, it was *very* evident we were on the spectrum... but we didn't know until our 20s. Today, we share all our childhood autism and audhd signs with you (and there's probably more where that came from)FIND US ELSEWHERE! ⬇️Our OF: @keara.lavren https://linktr.ee/kearagravesKEARA:INSTAGTAM - @kearagraves TIKTOK - @keara.gravesYOUTUBE - @KearaGraves LAUREN:INSTAGRAM - @whatsuplavrenTIKTOK - @whatsuplavrenYOUTUBE - @whatsuplavren
Today we share the unspoken rules of our relationship... (things that we both just know to do / or not to do) because, well, we have telepathy. FIND US ELSEWHERE! ⬇️Our OF: @keara.lavren https://linktr.ee/kearagravesKEARA:INSTAGTAM - @kearagraves TIKTOK - @keara.gravesYOUTUBE - @KearaGraves LAUREN:INSTAGRAM - @whatsuplavrenTIKTOK - @whatsuplavrenYOUTUBE - @whatsuplavren
Today we're answering your *highly anticipated* lesbian / wlw sex questions from Instagram, anything from scissoring to strapping to how often we do it! 😈🔥 To participate in the next one, follow our pod's Instagram @acouplequeerspod and watch out for our stories!FIND US ELSEWHERE! ⬇️Our OF: @keara.lavren https://linktr.ee/kearagravesKEARA:INSTAGTAM - @kearagraves TIKTOK - @keara.gravesYOUTUBE - @KearaGraves LAUREN:INSTAGRAM - @whatsuplavrenTIKTOK - @whatsuplavrenYOUTUBE - @whatsuplavren
Today we express our concerns with popular Netflix reality tv show, Queer Love Ultimatum, how we need better queer representation on TV and online, and then we ramble about Sirens (irl?)...
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Today we share the autism/audhd accommodations we've made that've helped us since being diagnosed! :)FIND US ELSEWHERE! ⬇️Our OF: @keara.lavren https://linktr.ee/kearagravesKEARA:INSTAGTAM - @kearagraves TIKTOK - @keara.gravesYOUTUBE - @KearaGraves LAUREN:INSTAGRAM - @whatsuplavrenTIKTOK - @whatsuplavrenYOUTUBE - @whatsuplavren
Keara got triggered AF and it led us into a rant about diet culture, skinnytok, and how the rise of thinness is not sitting well with us.FIND US ELSEWHERE! ⬇️Our OF: @keara.lavren https://linktr.ee/kearagravesKEARA:INSTAGTAM - @kearagraves TIKTOK - @keara.gravesYOUTUBE - @KearaGraves LAUREN:INSTAGRAM - @whatsuplavrenTIKTOK - @whatsuplavrenYOUTUBE - @whatsuplavren
Explaining the lore of why we deleted our couple's TikTok account in 2020 after getting backlash for a video we posted on sexuality labels.FIND US ELSEWHERE! ⬇️Our OF: @keara.lavren https://linktr.ee/kearagravesKEARA:INSTAGTAM - @kearagraves TIKTOK - @keara.gravesYOUTUBE - @KearaGraves LAUREN:INSTAGRAM - @whatsuplavrenTIKTOK - @whatsuplavrenYOUTUBE - @whatsuplavren
Keara is late-diagnosed autistic and Lauren is late-diagnosed ADHD. Today we dive into how we both recently got diagnosed and the impact it's had on our lives today.FIND US ELSEWHERE! ⬇️KEARA:INSTAGTAM - @kearagraves TIKTOK - @keara.gravesYOUTUBE - @KearaGraves LAVREN:INSTAGRAM - @whatsuplavrenTIKTOK - @whatsuplavrenYOUTUBE - @whatsuplavren
Spilling ALLL the tea on how our first month on OF has gone as a lesbian couple, why we started it, and how much $$$ we've made so far... 🤭FIND US ELSEWHERE! ⬇️KEARA:INSTAGTAM - @kearagraves TIKTOK - @keara.gravesYOUTUBE - @KearaGraves LAUREN:INSTAGRAM - @whatsuplavrenTIKTOK - @whatsuplavrenYOUTUBE - @whatsuplavren
Keara & LAVREN answer the BURNING question... "Do autistic people have s*x?" and take a personal dive into their intimate lives as wives.FIND US ELSEWHERE! ⬇️KEARA:INSTAGTAM - @kearagraves TIKTOK - @keara.gravesYOUTUBE - @KearaGraves LAVREN:INSTAGRAM - @whatsuplavrenTIKTOK - @whatsuplavrenYOUTUBE - @whatsuplavren
Keara and LAVREN sit down to talk about their personal experiences with both substances; how they've helped and how they've hurt.
Keara & LAVREN bust myths about soulmate connections and get down to the truth of what it feels like to be in a soulmate partnership.
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KEARA:
INSTAGTAM - @kearagraves
TIKTOK - @keara.graves
YOUTUBE - @KearaGraves
LAVREN:
INSTAGRAM - @whatsuplavren
TIKTOK - @whatsuplavren
YOUTUBE - @whatsuplavren
Join LAVREN and Keara on a very stoner holiday episode while they contemplate some deep, stimulating questions about life.
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As the holidays near, Keara Graves & LAVREN give listeners the ultimate guide to navigating family holiday events from their experience as queer, non-binary and neurodivergent humans.
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Keara and LAVREN, both high-masking autistics, reveal how the effects of masking can be both harmful and exhausting. They give advice to those who are first discovering they're autistic and/or have ADHD.
LAVREN has an uneasy experience with body dysmorphia while shopping, so the couple talks it out, and discusses their qualms with the current body standards for masc lesbians and afab folks online.
FIND US ELSEWHERE! KEARA INSTAGTAM - @kearagraves TIKTOK - @keara.graves YOUTUBE - @KearaGraves LAVREN INSTAGRAM - @whatsuplavren TIKTOK - @whatsuplavren YOUTUBE - @whatsuplavren