In this episode, Darisse interviews her best friend, Dr. Emily Balanky, about trying to manage both motherhood and a full-time career as an OB-GYN. Emily shares her journey navigating a highly demanding career with a challenging schedule while raising three daughters with her husband, Matt. Emily offers insight into the creative solutions and decisions she and Matt have made to balance professional responsibilities with active parenthood, highlighting the importance of flexibility, support, and adapting to unforeseen challenges. As is standard in this podcast, Darisse goes into extensive statistics that show the broader issues working mothers must negotiate, especially in finding childcare for young children all the way up to older teenagers. Can we have it all? Do we want it all? Darisse contrasts expectations with reality, acknowledging the societal pressures and personal dilemmas faced by mothers striving to fulfil both career and family roles effectively. Darisse shares her personal stories in how she had very unrealistic dreams regarding motherhood and a career, and how her views have evolved.  This candid exploration not only sheds light on the personal stories of the host and her guest but also encourages listeners to reflect on the nuanced dynamics of modern motherhood, work-life balance, and the diverse experiences of women navigating similar journeys.