We talked about how a family should be viewed as a team, not as a nest that we can't wait for the kids to leave. It is a powerful perspective shift. You are building a multigenerational team. This concept appeals more to men as it is a mission. Families normally don’t engage with each other, and they just live a life of cohabitation until the younger members of the family leave. We need to learn how to have a productive relationship to improve and prosper as a family.