On the morning of 9/11, former ATP top-100 tennis pro Jeff Salzenstein rode the subway through the World Trade Center stop—ten minutes before impact. That near-miss, and later the harrowing fight to save his brother from addiction, shaped a life philosophy that puts meaning over medals. In this raw, uplifting conversation, Jeff and Dr. B explore purpose (“your why”), identity beyond achievements, and how true growth blends the warrior’s drive with the lover’s heart.Join our Own Your Number Enneagram Program just for 98$, and well, own your relationships. Check out here: https://ownyournumber.defiantspirit.org/pages/home🔹 What You'll Learn:Near-miss at 9/11 — Survival sharpens perspective.The power of WHY — Purpose as self-transcendence, not self-achievement.Identity beyond titles — You’re not your résumé.Numbers vs. meaning — Rankings and money are tools, not truth.Process over prize — Growth comes from pursuit, not outcome.Self-reliance forged early — Tennis as a dojo for discipline and entrepreneurship.Living paradox — Warrior drive × Lover’s heart = authentic power.Stage as service — Speaking and coaching as giving, not ego.Family and loss — Brother’s addiction and death as catalyst for healing.Brokenness to wholeness — Scars become a source of connection.True fulfillment — Lasting joy comes from service, not success.📌 Timestamp Highlights:[00:00–02:00] 9/11 near-miss — Jeff passes through the World Trade Center subway stop minutes before impact; survival reshapes perspective.[04:20–06:12] Discovering his WHY — Purpose framed as self-transcendence and breaking generational patterns.[08:01–11:04] Beyond “Top-100” — Why Jeff resists being defined by accolades and wants to be known for his heart.[12:15–14:12] Process over prize — Tennis wasn’t about loving the game; it was about mastery, resilience, and performance.[18:01–20:26] Solopreneur origins — Alone on the courts since age 4, learning self-reliance and discipline.[21:17–23:01] The ceiling of being seen — Insecurity with the world’s best; fear of visibility limited growth.[25:09–27:19] Stage as service — Reframing competition skills into speaking and coaching with heart.[40:03–42:11] The hollowness of winning — Why trophies and money don’t satisfy; fulfillment requires serving others.[47:02–51:18] Brother’s overdose and intervention — Chaos, rehab, prison, transformation, relapse, and tragic loss.[51:54–53:30] Sparks of meaning — Carrying shards of pain from darkness to light for self and others.[54:00–55:20] Closing loop — From 9/11 to family loss, Jeff embraces brokenness as the path to wholeness and service.🔔 Stay Connected:Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/baruch_halevi/Join our Facebook community: https://www.facebook.com/TheDefiantSpirit#Enneagram #EnneagramType #EnneagramTest #Man #Men #DefiantSpirit #DrBaruchHaLevi #Communication #PersonalDevelopment #PersonalGrowth #SpiritualGrowth