I feel that in recent years, I’ve become much more confident than I used to be. Let’s talk about the reasons behind this change and how to achieve true confidence.
00:00 Let’s talk about confidence
02:18 The one-dimensional evaluation system and exam pressure in school
05:14 Experimenting during university, entering the workforce, and how moving to the Netherlands changed my mindset
08:49 Reason 1: Embracing diverse ways of defining value
11:52 Reason 2: Trying new things and discovering personal talents
13:55 Reason 3: Stoicism — stop comparing, stop seeking others’ approval
17:59 The overly modest attitude common among Chinese people
我感觉最近这几年自己变得比以前自信了许多。一起来聊聊变自信的原因，以及如何达到真正的自信。
00:00 我们来聊聊自信
02:18 学校阶段的单一评价与考试压力
05:14 大学尝试与初入职场、来到荷兰的心态转变
08:49 原因一：价值评判的多元化
11:52 原因二：不断尝试、发现天赋
13:55 原因三：斯多葛主义——不比较、不求他人认可
17:59 过于谦虚的中国人
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